Valentine’s Day is synonymous with romance, proposals, and declarations of lifelong commitment. Every year, countless couples embark on the journey towards marriage, caught up in the excitement of wedding planning. Amidst this joy, however, one important conversation is often overlooked: prenuptial agreements.
While not the most romantic element of wedding preparations, a prenuptial agreement can be one of the most valuable. Rather than signifying a lack of trust, it provides clarity, security, and peace of mind for both partners. Having this discussion early ensures that financial and personal matters are approached with transparency and fairness, strengthening the foundation of a marriage.
What is a Prenuptial Agreement?
A prenuptial agreement, or prenup, is a legal contract between two individuals who are about to marry or enter a civil partnership. It sets out how finances, property, and other assets will be handled in the event of a separation or divorce. Contrary to popular belief, prenups are not just for the wealthy; they offer any couple the opportunity to establish clear financial arrangements before marriage.
A well-drafted prenuptial agreement can cover:
- The division of property and assets owned before the marriage
- How wealth accumulated during the marriage will be shared
- Financial responsibilities of each partner
- The jurisdiction in which divorce proceedings should take place
- Provisions for children from previous relationships
While no one enters a marriage expecting it to end, having an agreement in place provides certainty and helps prevent unnecessary disputes in the future.
Why Consider a Prenup After Valentine’s Day?
Valentine’s Day is one of the most popular times for proposals, with many couples turning their attention to wedding planning. While choosing venues, guest lists, and attire takes centre stage, financial planning is just as crucial. A prenuptial agreement encourages open, honest conversations about financial expectations, helping couples prevent misunderstandings down the line. Addressing these matters early demonstrates commitment to each other’s long-term well-being.
When Should You Get a Prenuptial Agreement?
Timing is key. While prenups are not currently legally binding in Auckland and Auckland, they hold significant weight in court, provided they meet certain conditions. One crucial requirement is that the agreement must be signed at least 28 days before the wedding.
Many couples delay considering a prenup, sometimes leaving it until just weeks before their wedding. A last-minute agreement may be viewed as having been made under duress and could carry less weight in legal proceedings. To ensure a well-structured and valid agreement, it is advisable to begin discussions at least four months before the wedding.
The Process of Creating a Prenuptial Agreement
Drafting a prenuptial agreement involves several key steps:
- Initial Discussions – Couples should have an open conversation about their expectations and intentions.
- Financial Disclosure – Both parties must fully disclose their financial circumstances, including assets, income, and debts.
- Independent Legal Advice – Each partner must seek advice from separate solicitors to ensure the agreement is fair and understood by both parties.
- Drafting the Agreement – A solicitor will draft the prenup based on the couple’s discussions and disclosures.
- Review and Negotiation – If necessary, terms can be adjusted before finalising the document.
- Signing the Agreement – Both parties must sign the prenup well in advance of the wedding.
This structured approach ensures fairness, transparency, and legal robustness, reducing the risk of future disputes.
What If It’s Too Late for a Prenup?
If your wedding is imminent and a prenuptial agreement hasn’t been arranged, there is an alternative: postnuptial agreements. These agreements function in much the same way as prenups but are signed after marriage. A postnuptial agreement allows couples to establish clear financial arrangements at any stage of their marriage, offering the same level of protection and peace of mind.
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Emma Davies is a Partner in our family Law team, which is ranked in Tier One in the independently researched publication, The Legal 500.
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