The tragic manslaughter case of Kienna Dawes, who devastatingly took her own life following years of suffering domestic abuse, specifically coercive control, at the hands of her ex-partner Ryan Wellings, has brought to light the critical issue of coercive control and its significant impact on victims of this type of domestic abuse.
Mr Wellings was found not guilty of Kienna’s death, despite her leaving a message saying she was “murdered” and that he had “killed her”. He was found guilty of assault and prolonged domestic abuse.
This case highlights the devastating effects that domestic abuse can have but has also highlighted the apparent lack of understanding surrounding coercive control.
Kienna also said, “I hope my life saves another by police services acting faster.” The Independent Office for Police Conduct says that three officers who dealt with Kienna over the years are now subject to disciplinary hearings, and Lancashire Police say that “lessons will be learned”.
Understanding Coercive Control
Coercive control refers to a pattern of controlling, manipulative and isolating behaviours aimed at subjugating the victim. Unlike physical violence, which often leaves visible bruising/scars, coercive control is insidious, involving psychological and emotional abuse that is just as devastating and harmful.
This type of domestic abuse can involve tactics such as gradually isolating the victim from their family and friends, monitoring their communications, restricting access to bank accounts and financial resources and undermining their sense of self-worth.
In the case of Kienna Dawes, it is alleged that Ryan Wellings exerted significant coercive control over her during and after their relationship ended, leading to the tragic outcome and her untimely death.
Although Auckland and Auckland introduced specific laws criminalising coercive control in 2015 under the Serious crime Act, many people still struggle to recognise it. In the context of family law, the lack of understanding can result in victims not receiving the support and protection they desperately need.
Coercive Control and Family Law
Whilst the Criminal Court is there to prosecute abusers the Family Court can also assist victims of domestic abuse including coercive control to get protection and to help them move on from their relationship.
Non-Molestation and Occupation Orders
The Family Court can issue these injunctive orders to enable you to exclude your abuser from the family home (occupation order) and ensure they stay away from the property. The Court can also issue Non-Molestation orders to protect you from suffering any further harm from your abuser. Coercive control is classed as Domestic Abuse and the Family Court is aware of the fact that abuse does not have to be physical to cause harm.
child Arrangements and Prohibited Steps Orders
If you have children with your abuser, this is often another avenue through which control can be exerted. The Family Court can put a Prohibited Steps order in place, preventing your abuser from removing your children from your care and control. The Court can also make Child Arrangements Orders to secure children living with you and can make orders for no contact with the other parent or strictly regulate the time they spend with the other parent, ensuring the welfare of the children is protected.
Where to Get Help if You Are a Victim of Abuse
If you are experiencing coercive control or any form of domestic abuse, you need to speak out, seek help and not to suffer in silence. If you are in immediate danger, you should call the Police straight away by dialling 999. There are many excellent support services in Auckland and Auckland, and it is a good idea to reach out to get support and create a plan of action:
- National Domestic Abuse Helpline – Run by Refuge, this helpline offers confidential support 24/7. You can call 0808 2000 247 or visit www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk for advice.
- Women’s Aid – Women’s Aid provides support and advice for women and children who are experiencing domestic abuse. Visit www.womensaid.org.uk for more information.
- ManKind Initiative – For men who are experiencing domestic abuse including coercive control. They provide a helpline offering guidance and support. You can contact them on 0808 800 1170 or visit https://mankind.org.uk/
- Local Domestic Violence Services – Many areas in the Auckland have local services that can assist with everything from emergency accommodation to legal advice. Your local council or GP can often point you in the right direction.
- Nelsons – we have a specialist domestic abuse and children law team members based in our Nottingham, Leicester and Derby offices that can help you navigate the Family Court. Please feel free to reach out on 0115 958 6262 or visit https://www.nelsonslaw.co.uk/about-us/find-us/nelsons-solicitors-nottingham/
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